15 Tips for Continuing to Have Great Sex

1.    COMMUNICATE

Talk about fantasies and desires. Talk about how often you would like to be having sex and what kind of sex you’d like to be having. Talk about what you like and don’t like. And don’t be afraid to talk about how good you feel during the actual act!

2.    LEARN WHAT YOUR PARTNER LIKES

Even if something you did sent your last partner to the moon and back, it may do nothing to please your current partner, so make sure you learn your current partner’s likes and dislikes and make love accordingly. Fortunately, or fortunately, people are all different, so you need to learn how to please each new partner all over again.

3.    TRY DIFFERENT POSITIONS

Missionary is great, so is doggy, but if that’s all you do it’s going to get old really fast, like eating hamburgers every night of the week, so spice it up!!! Switch positions and check out the Kama Sutra’s photos on the internet for ideas!

4.    TRY DIFFERENT PLACES

A porch swing, sleeping bag, or swimming pool can be a great place to enjoy something different and you will never appreciate a bathroom or kitchen fully, until it’s been fully utilized.

5.    AVOID DISTRACTIONS

Kids are great, but they can be a huge infringement a couple’s sex life! The same can be said for work, stress, money problems, fatigue, self-consciousness, jealousy, etc. Identify and eliminate distractions, which may be inhibiting your sex life! Of course you can’t “remove” your kids, but you can get a babysitter a couple nights a week. You may not be able to fully solve your money problems, but you can make it a point to forget about them for a few hours together!

6.    PLAN IT

Most of us live very busy lives!!! A lot of the things we say are important to us (and may actually be important to us) fall by the way-side, taking a back seat to work, parenting, housework, etc. It’s important that we prioritize things that are important, fun and healthy for us! You should schedule time for sex! Put it on your calendar. Plan your schedule around it, when you can. Being spontaneous is great, but if you don’t plan it and you are frequently occupied, it may not happen!

7.    DON’T PLAN IT

Don’t feel like you always have to plan sex. That will get redundant and mechanical. Be spontaneous sometimes and seize unexpected opportunities!

8.    PACING

Guys, don’t feel like you have to go a million-miles an hour! Ladies often want some time to warm up first and ladies, keep in mind that if you routinely want a long warm-up, that gets repetitive also and repetitive can often become boring. Once in a while, surprise your man by using some lubricant and going at it, like there’s no time to waste!

9.    FANTASIES

Fantasies are very powerful and exciting things! Find out what your partner’s fantasies are and indulge them, when you are willing and remember, just like relationships need compromise, so do sex-lives. You can do something you don’t find so stimulating that your partner loves and then you can enjoy it even more when they return the favor!

10.    LEARN TECHNIQUES

Don’t be satisfied that you are some sort of unsung sexual expert. Continue to learn new techniques. Check the internet! It’s a great resource! Or get some instructional books. Women, especially, can learn great techniques for oral sex, deep-throating and controlling their vaginal muscles and orgasms to enhance pleasure. Guys, especially, can attempt to master cunnilingus, massage and instigating g-spot orgasms with their fingers!

11.    EXPERIMENT

Try new things! Bring toys into the bedroom! Play games! Try role-playing! Consider bringing other people into the bedroom. As far as we know, we only live once, so why not try to make sure we get the most out of it?

12.    LIP SERVICE

Use sound! Try talking dirty during sex! When you feel good, let your partner know it by allowing your pleasure to over-flow your body and escape your mouth as wonderfully erotic sounds. For many people, this is one of the most exciting things about sex. If you’re too self-conscious to make noise, you and your partner may really be missing out!

13.     USE BOOKS AND MOVIES

Broaden your horizons! Watch movies and read books to get exposed to new and different things, so that you can add new ideas! Don’t be afraid to watch different kinds of pornography. “Porn” has a very negative stigma and it does have its shortcomings, but it’s a very valuable resource.

14.    DON’T LET YOURSELF GO


Some couples stop being attracted to each other, because they stop exercising and lose their sexy body, or they get out of shape and can’t perform in bed for more than a couple minutes, or they simply don’t trim and shower frequently enough. If you want to continue having great sex, you need to realize that you may need to invest energy in continuing to maintain a healthy and enticing body!

15.    GET A BABYSITTER


This last tip only applies to parents, but there are so many parents out there…it’s hard to understand why so many parents are so reluctant to use babysitters, that they end-up not having sex lives. Do you really want to completely substitute “sex” for “child-care?” Enjoy both! A baby-sitter is a necessary element for most parents, if they want to have a healthy sex life! If you can’t find a babysitter, try to locate one online. If you can’t afford to pay a babysitter, see if a family-member or friend will be willing to help.




BY: EVAN MARQUISEE
2/9/2016

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